I understand that some people are sensitive, but the OP has reported professionals speaking about the same subjects in a similar way to him/her on various occasions. It's very unlikely that people in different locations (as the psychiatrist and the psychologist who were seen in different weeks in different places), talked to the OP about the same subjects in the same inappropriate way.

I think the OP does believe he/she had these conversations with these people but I am not so sure they really occurred.