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Originally Posted by Catgirl26
Thanks Wiretwister.
It's so disappointing that they are the only ones who are negative. I find that I just don't know how to respond to them when they say hurtful comments. I get so frustrated and stressed over it.
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only the ones we care deeply for can hurt us so deeply ... it is never going to be easy dealing with their rejection ... but remember I am sure they love you ... if they didn't ... they would not be upset or care ... and I know you love them ... or it would not hurt you so much ... at this point they are still "reacting" to the ... shock ... as time goes on the emotions will die down ... will they ever accept you ... as you are ... IDK ... but I do know ... if you want to keep the relationship open ... keep loving them ... "turn the other cheek" ... so to say ... give them time ... and do nothing to shut the door from your side ...