Gal, it sounds like you have joined a new church which is great. But don't forget about your last one - you thought you had a closer relationship to other members than you did, and you ignored all the signs that they were not comfortable.

Please don't repeat that experience at your new church. This guy doesn't even show any signs of wanting to be a friend, let alone more. Your posts makes it sound like you feel you have some claim to him, some right to be upset with him for not sitting next to you and giving his number to other girls.