I can relate this too, completely. It triggers me. Sometimes family will come over, and I immediately dread it. There are some people I don't mind being around, but when one starts, the others tend to go along with the ignorance they are spreading. They do this when it comes to certain groups too from time to time, or tell derogatory jokes, which I HATE. It makes me ashamed of family at times. I really don't understand how they are so negative when they don't know what they are talking about. Then, they pretend they don't do this. Also, some act like they are all that. ....I just can't.

Edit: My mom just whispered to me not to tell my family that I am on any meds, if they bring up healthcare. Wtf.