See that's the thing. In a way I don't think I have accepted that my marriage is over, despite me being in a relationship with someone else (a woman). I guess it still hurts as we were together such a long time (a third of our lives) and we were each others first serious relationship. Going through a divorce and separating finances really spells out the finale.

I'm just still in denial I guess. On the other hand, my new partner would appreciate if I was actually divorced and not still married. I know these things bother her too. I want to do it but I just have concerns, especially when our children are involved.

I'm trying to move on, it's just so hard.