Nope, I think you guys did just fine! I went to one of his male friends who is a really dear person, and his wife, and this man was at the party, thought my hubby was acting "not like normal", and is going to try to talk to him later on. Things are a little better, but I am not going to let anyone think I am crazy, or was just seeing things. There were too many signs, and we have a lot of love and time invested in this marriage that I am too stubborn to give up. I love this man with all my heart!! Thanks for the support, and you guys are all right in my book!!