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Originally Posted by sinking
I agree with you Emily, except that i put the blame on me, not on others or society. i feel there's something wrong with me, maybe i am too sensitive. not everyone in my life have really hurt me or behaved bad with me, but i recognize i often twist things to prove i am right and every one hurt me so that my social isolation makes sense and i need nothing from no one.
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I do worry that is the case with me as well, but I have objectively looked at it and I do feel like they have done things to me and, they seem to expect that I just forgive them. And not to put too fine a point on it but... I have examined it and I do think that what they did was objectively wrong. I sometimes feel like it is only the larger societal view that somehow we should compromise that makes me ever think I am in the wrong. But I am not and if it means being alone, it means being alone.
I do not agree that we "need" people. It is a good thing to have good people in your life... but, if you don't have good people in your life, than you need to boot them.
I just wish more people would do that the bad people among us would need to change.