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Originally Posted by unaluna
The other thing is - an easy relationship with your t is not necessarily something that just happens naturally. For me, i made a decision (after about 3 or 4 years) that i just wasnt going to fight my t any longer. I announced it to him, and i asked for his help in stopping it, as i had a habit of "just saying no" to any of his suggestions. Its a very hard habit to break.
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But this would mean that he would somehow win. And he would be probably pleased for me and I don't want to give him this feeling. I want to deprive him from any satisfaction from working with me. I don't know how I could accept him getting something good out of our work.