Hey Catgirl26.

I'm sorry you're struggling with this. I'm a 59 y/o lesbian who came out at 45 or so. My mom's not real accepting. I finally told her last month that she is always asking my sister about her boyfriend. My sister is divorced and now dating a rich guy, rich being the operative word..

I know that I will find a great girl in time. I've dated the last 6 months after taking a break for a god many years while my kids were younger. My kids are now grown 22 y/o twin girls. They don't mind that they have a gay mom. They care if I am content.

Stick to your guns and do what makes you happy! It's a tough road but if you and your kids are okay and thriving, then that's more than enough!

The parents may or may not come around. I've finally have accepted that I'm okay with it and that my mother is toxic and unloving no matter what the issue with me is.

Feel free to message me if you like. Hang in, Cat