My DS is 3 1/2 years old and I have recently found I am pregnant with baby #2. I tried to explain to him today that I will be having another baby and that he will be a big brother. He was not happy to say the least and said things like "I will make the baby go away" & "If you have another baby I hate you". I was not expecting that kind of a reaction and have no idea how to respond. Someone please tell me this is a normal reaction and that there are ways to change his opinion.and prepare him for when the baby comes.