I am so with you on the new pet thing. We are all different and some feel the need for time and mourning. A new pet gives us a focus for some positives and also some soft fur to cry in. My babies are my comfort and I am so sorry for your loss. I DO NOT want to diminish your loss but I want to tell you that pets suffer horrible lives sometimes due to cruelty, overbreeding and neglect. Your Barney had a chance to be a loved part of your family and that is an incredible gift on both ends. I swear they are telepathic. Love the new critter and please know that I do understand your pain.