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Originally Posted by Brokenmask94
My wife doesn't know that I cheated yet but I feel like I'm going to have to tell her soon because I ran into her friend earlier today and she threated to tell my wife what I did because I have been ignoring her for the past couple of days. I'm honestly very worried about how this going to affect my marriage because I do want to fix marriage but I'm just worried that I won't be able to do that if she finds out.
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You see what I'm saying. This woman is evil. Now she's blackmailing you. I'll bet you ten dollars to a donut she's not pregnant either. And your wife thought this woman was her "friend."
Keep totally ignoring the woman. Stay completely away from her. Does your wife hang around with her? If the answer is yes, then you probably do have to sit down and talk it out with your wife. Tell her that the both of you need to have nothing to do with this person. This woman is a low weasel. Your wife had poor judgement in keeping her around for a friend. And you had your own poor judgement.
Confess, if you must, and beg forgiveness. Then you and your wife will need to cut this woman completely off, if your marriage is to survive. Women can be very forgiving to a man who is sorry enough. You see now what this woman is up to. She's a destructive person. Your wife trusted her. You and your wife
both can learn a lot here.