I don't know Just Passing, it sounds like things could be rekindled if you all wanted. Just because he doesn't feel in love with you at the moment, there's a lot of "history" and love in the past and there might be banked coals. I would keep on working to get yourself together and not do a wall right away. Do you still love him?

I'm sorry you had to hear it "out loud" though too. Some changes, like clearing rubble, can make room for better buildings?