hon I believe like Perna on this. the fact that he wants to stay together says alot! I believe in marriage we all go thru the feelings of not being in love with our spouse. I think it is pretty normal to go thru things like that. hang in there. it isn't over yet. my heart tells me he will try. does he give you hugs now? if so I suspect he will continue to do this. do something to help rekindle that love that is in there.