I think it is important to try and be independent. I encourage you to try. One can be independent, on their own, yet still have other(s) close by. A roomate could be the solution. It would help financially, and the mere presence of another person could solve the problem you have with solitude. One can also be independent yet still reside at home - as long as one contributes to their full share of household responsibilities. I am of the opinion this will provide you a sense of confidence, completeness, and independence.

The thing about a roomate though is that you must cooperate. When will each have access to the laundry and what kind of schedule will be in place for using the kitchen. Perhaps taking turns cooking for the both of you could work. And, will things like the television be communal? Things to consider about having a roomate.

Living entirely on your own negates the above. You and only you make the decisions about such things in life.

I believe there are things you can do now to prepare for independence and the responsibilities of living on your own. Obviously saving money and collecting items you will need is one of them but you need to start taking responsibility for yourself now. Find ways to gradually become less dependent on your family and in your present situation. Else, it will be a massive hit to you for which you may be unprepared - not just financially but emotionally too.

What can you do now? If you aren't doing so already...

- pay rent
- contribute financially to the running and upkeep of the household (your share of utilities and food)
- contribute to daily chores (ie. cooking meals, laundry, house cleaning, outdoor maintenance, etc)
- become self-sufficient for clothing, phones, and other personal items you may not presently take responsibility for

Find ways for alone time whether it be out or around the home and start to stretch these periods out longer and longer.

Have great luck!