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Old Nov 30, 2007, 05:52 PM
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It sounds like it might have been real scary and confronting to do this. I'm glad you were able to take that risk and have seen some benefits.

Are you still doing it and has it gotten a little easier now that some time has passed?
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He said that we can email as MUCH as we want (100 times per day). Believe in this - it is challenging fears about being punished. It is okay to be seen. You are not a nuisance. "Too much" simply means exploration, not punishment/withdrawal. Trust in him.

Not looking at him is about keeping aspects of self hidden/secret. We know that is not the healthy choice. Keep working on this - you will get there.

Accept there are parts. Be kind and gentle with them. Working with parts and feelings is the key to happiness. We have been happy before when listened to them and accepted them and were open to feelings. Write in your journal - it is safe to do so.