[QUOTE=TishaBuv;5596102]It's been over two months since the big confrontation. Since then, I have called several times to try to discuss it, but she refuses to even discuss it with me. My whole family told me to get over it. I wrote them all off for invalidating me. Miserable SOB's, the lot of them![/QUOTE

It doesn't seem like there is too much you can do about it. Do you have a therapist who can help you process this so you're not tearing yourself up over it?