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Originally Posted by Rose76
You see what I'm saying. This woman is evil. Now she's blackmailing you. I'll bet you ten dollars to a donut she's not pregnant either. And your wife thought this woman was her "friend."
Keep totally ignoring the woman. Stay completely away from her. Does your wife hang around with her? If the answer is yes, then you probably do have to sit down and talk it out with your wife. Tell her that the both of you need to have nothing to do with this person. This woman is a low weasel. Your wife had poor judgement in keeping her around for a friend. And you had your own poor judgement.
Confess, if you must, and beg forgiveness. Then you and your wife will need to cut this woman completely off, if your marriage is to survive. Women can be very forgiving to a man who is sorry enough. You see now what this woman is up to. She's a destructive person. Your wife trusted her. You and your wife both can learn a lot here.
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Quite honestly, pregnancy being real or fake, the solution to this is to confess, imo. he should confess, not only for the reasons I mentioned above but to defuse the bomb that this other woman is carrying. What does she have to use against him if the wife has already been made aware of the affair?