We have to wake up to what happened on a physiological basis. What goes on in the brain as a result and that all the manifestations that are now going on - anxiety, depression, self-loathing, anger, lack of connection, lack of identity, feelings of hopelessness - are all the by-products of SIMPLY - not getting basic needs MET from 0-3. The CODE - binary, biological. It is like a mis-written code. Basically, there is no *messed up childhood* - there is a messed-up code that was given to us with all the pain that entails - we MUST look at this with courage for what it was and is - a time to re-write our own biology.