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Originally Posted by pepper_mint
I think it's good (at some point) that we feel so attached and have a hard time between sessions. At least it seems that we are really engaged in the process and a therapists became really important for us. And generaly, for me it's good to feel anything (even bad), since I'm no so "emotional" person.
Also, it means that we've got some problems with attachment and this kind of stuff, so we can work on this (why we feel like that, what it reminds us of etc.).
So, I accepted these feelings (for me, it is more difficult after deeper sessions) and I hope I'll learn something new about mysefl by discussing this.
However, it's still really annoying that for us, these feeling are soooo strong, it takes us a lot of time to think about the therapists, and for them it's just a job
(I'm not saying that they don't care, but still... soooo unequal relationship :-/)
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Yeah I know what you mean. It's a terrible feeling between sessions, but it does seem appropriate. like you say, it's an unequal relationship that really sucks sometimes. I just wonder how is this doing me any good? Or is there going to come a time when it will pass...