I'm worried about your safety. Are you still living with him? Can you take your sons and go someplace safe?

Your story was hard to read--so painful and he was so abusive. What really struck me was that as you were trying to leave him (his wife effing trying to leave him!!!!), his only concern was to make sure you didn't take a bank card with you. To me, that is so horrible. I am so sorry you are going through this. I hope you can find a way to be safe. Please see a lawyer, and be safe--don't hesitate again to call 911 if he gets violent and tries to attack you, your sons, or your house or belongings. Also, 911 keeps records of all calls, and that documentation may help you in the future.

Best of luck.