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Originally Posted by Crypts_Of_The_Mind
It sounds like you do need help figuring out the differing boundaries between self, family, friend, acquaintance, and doctors. There is a certain level of respect and love with all of the categories but each is different. People with borderline see and live in "black and white" type thinking so it's all or nothing. We can learn to retrain that thinking but it takes a lot of hard work. It sounds like he wants to help you with that. Please let him.
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Yes, I really do need help with this. I almost want to stop therapy before it really starts in order to avoid the disappointment... I will do my best to talk about this with him.
For the record, I have been a bit unlucky with therapists in the past...one went on maternity leave, another just couldn't handle my issues (I didn't know I had borderline back then), another became a boss somewhere else and had to transfer me
I hope this therapy will last until I get something good out of it.
Thanks
