DePressMe,
Thanks for your comments. Hunting.. honestly I could careless. I am just so done with listening to the yelling, I'm the boss, general bullying crap. I think I'm being a little over sensitive now. Although he is a big guy and could squash me like a bug, he tends to back off when I stand up to him. I may get the silent treatment for a few days but then he usually settles down. I guess I'm just being indecisive about what I can live. Mostly I can't figure our what I am really feeling at this point.

I think I need of peace and meaningful conversation.
Thanks for your response.