Wow, it's only been 2 hours and my new T has already responded with a nice email! I'm feeling better already!

Here it is:

I'm sorry that you had this upsetting experience. It's difficult to maintain contact with a therapist one has left and if your old T wasn't able to be warm and open when she was working with you, I doubt she would be able to be that way now. I'm certain that she did care about you. She probably has difficulty showing it.

I would be glad to discuss this more with you at our next session. And it's certainly ok to reach out in between sessions.

Take good care,