I do understand when someone (for example H) does not want me to talk about something because it has already been said but do find it annoying when someone says they would rather not talk about a certain subject that matters (for example death) and has not been discussed. Nowadays--you always have to be careful about discussing Trump--people get so worked up that it has become a topic that causes huge emotional reactions. It is no fun to be around people who seem judgemental about our opinions!