confused, I just deleted my original response because I hadn't read your other thread in this forum. My original response was all about helping him to understand how the process is making life better for you both, etc.
But in your other thread you pointed out he's cheating, being abusive, etc. So now my gut reaction is that this guy is just using your problem as a scapegoat to rationalize his own screwed up behavior.
My two cents.
Be safe.
Cyran0
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