i was thinking about "experimenting" and how some people get sexual experience out of a committed relationship in order to please the right person who finally does come along.

now, my personaly thoughts on this is that one should..develop and learn within a good, healthy relationship. not be expected to be a pro first time round.

and the thing about gender here too.. is it true that men tend to experiment more because there is no real..proof? ( or is there a proof for men of loss of virginity? idk ) whereas with women its kinda obvious?

do you personally care whether your partner has experimented before? or is it less..special?