Part of me feels that it can be a little selfish but my daughter is 13 and she keeps asking for her and I to take a trip together. A mom and daughter trip. And honestly I want to please her plus we're very close. I explained that maybe we should all go together and she's said that why can't it just be me and her, that why do we always have to do everything all 5 of us. I think I wouldn't mind it if he did that with his kids as long as it didnt become something that he does on a regular basis. I personally wouldn't do it all the time but I'm just telling him I want to do this with her this summer.