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Old Apr 20, 2017, 07:28 AM
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LL my daughter met a guy when she was 18 and overnight she moved out and in with her. He's very controlling

She works but he's got her fired from just about every job even the one she really loved at petsmart. Anyway for almost a year now we have made her pay for part of her cell phone bill and money each month for her insurance. She turns 21 this June and will then have to get her phone in her name and her own vehical.

She is often times very very lonely. She has lost most if not all of her friends. She now realizes how much work goes into cleaning a house. She has tried to move back home countless times but always goes back to him.

Back of the reason she does go back is him but part of it is also us. Living with your parents and in their home you have to follow their rules that is hard to do once you have lived alone.

Once you move out you will adjust but you need to make sure financially you can do it on your own. Emotionally you can do it. You can turn on the tv or radio and dance around and your friends will always be around.

Just make sure you are financially secure and have a healthy savings account for emergencies before you make the plunge

Good luck
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