Other people can be afraid of our healing. When I started going to a therapist, my son got worse for a while in his own stuff. He couldn't handle it because he had to start looking at his own stuff. In the beginning, every time I started back to T, he got worse- more violent, more abusive, etc. If I quit for a while, he settled down. When I actually started making noticeable healing changes, he had a meltdown. People don't want to admit or deal with their own stuff. Now son and I seem to be healing at the same speed, give or take, and can support each other. Change is hard for people, even good change. But it can get better.

Hang in there confused. You are doing well. Stick with T. Sounds like he understands and can get you through.