(((( confused4ever )))

men are so often threatened by other men. they have a hard time seeing a female/male relationship as platonic or therapeutic.

I wonder if your husband is jealous on some level. Could he wish he could be there for you like T is, but has no idea how to do that and is too afraid to try or to do what he needs to learn how to be that way? If so, that would leave him very frustrated and possibly angry.

I'm so glad you reconnected with T and feel like you have someone there for you. That's so important.