I think it's always going to be up to the individual person you ask. What one person deems wrong is another's person's 'no big deal' or even another person's right. It's very complex and no one person's morals with be the exact same as another's.

From my perspective and how much I know about you; no you're not a bad person. How you've been there for many users on here and have tried to help, I'd say you're a very good person. A good person who's in pain.

I will say something I believe to be true: A bad person, a genuinely evil person, is as light as a feather and never questions his/her morals.