there really isnt any proof for women either. when youre 6 and you fall off your bike you can break your hymen. my friend's hymen didnt break even after she had sex. so the hymen thing isnt like a tell all.

i think if guys do experiment more it has nothing to do with thinking about your futre partner, its cause theyre horny lol.

i think guys would be less likely to experiment, at least with men, because society tells them that they cant express anything other than pure unadulterated manhood.

my boyfriend had only slept with 2 girls before me and i had slept with 8 guys lol. so i felt like a slut when hes this good guy. he said he didnt care (half of those were drunken one night stands anyways) and has never judged me for it so i dont know.