and now I will apologize for jumping on you like this my friend...it did upset me that someone would question my only means of fighting my demons...the subject is actually a very good one...and I do beieve some humur is harmful and degrading...like pardon the expression paki jokes or blonde jokes but like all things in life we must take them with a grain of salt and realize that people need humour to survive...it is wrong when we use humour as a way of hurting others and in that respect I agree whoeheartedly with you...