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Originally Posted by lucozader
WTF... That is a terrible thing to say. I would not be able to forgive him.
I don't think you should 'no-show', though. For your own benefit, I think if you're going to end this it needs to end properly, even if that means just making sure that he knows exactly how much he has hurt you and why you feel you can't continue.
It does seem a shame to end an eighteen month relationship, especially if it has otherwise been great... but... I dunno. I'm horrified that a therapist of all people could say something like that. I'm really horrified.
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Thank you... That really helps to know I'm not overreacting. It hurts so much. You slowly, slowly let down all the barriers and then get sucker-punched when you're at you're most vulnerable. He looked pretty horrified but made such a bad job of explaining why he said it, I actually felt worse.
I just think that comment will always be at the back of my mind. And it's childish, but the only power I have in this relationship is to stop turning. Ridiculous, I'm only hurting myself really, not him.