I have figured out the problem, His ex is a Narcassist Sociopath and she has lowered his self esteem to near extinction, He blocked her on his phone now, He says he wants me and only me, She is blocked off of his phone now and she is blocked on Facebook, He was in a Narcissistic relationship with her, And she tried and is still trying to control him, She did not want him to have anything to do with his family or even his own children, She wanted him all to herself, No friends no family, No anything, Just full power and control over him