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Old Apr 21, 2017, 02:12 PM
Misssy2 Misssy2 is offline
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Nena..My sister slept with my husband years ago..she tried to tell me many times..and I didn't believe her because she had serious mental issues AND her and I were super close...

Then my mother hooked her up with an answering service and told her how to tape "him" when he called so I could hear it...after she moved out of our house!

Then I went to my mothers one day and my mother asked me if I was going to believe her or if I wanted to hear a taped discussion about him bringing her over a 6 pack of beer for a BJ.

I said..No, I'm all set...I went home and talked to my husband and he FINALLY admitted it...

It was just a SEX thing....It was me being very busy with work and them living in the same house...It destroyed my whole family dynamic...for years..ultimately, it happened again like 5 years later and I had left him.

Your sister can love you and this still happen. Why would she have a reason to lie about this? Maybe she does have a reason..I'm just trying to help figure it out.

And if it is true it is not only her that bertrayed you. This just made me so sick because my thought process was...so many women in the world...and you go with my sister?

I blamed him more than my sister...because we had so much together...my family was mad at me for keeping HIM around for 5 more years..while not talking to her at all...it really wasn't fair of me...they BOTH were responsible.

What does your gut tell you- you say it says you believe him..but is that your heart? If you get butterflies when you think of this...I wouldn't ignore them.
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Thanks for this!
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