I had a T say the exact same thing to me last year. My wonderful T had retired and I was trying out a new T. I told her about how I was assaulted, and she asked me if I had "sent any signals" that I wanted it and asked how I tried to resist (I said no, I fought back, etc). The T STILL asked me if I could have "done anything differently" to stop the assault because she wanted me to "have more agency" in the situation. I told her that she was seriously out of line, left, and never came back. Being treated that way was almost like being assaulted a second time. Someone who would even think to say anything like that fundamentally does not understand the concept of sexual assault.