I honestly believe I had BPD. My soon to be ex husband had narcissistic tendencies. And from all I've read bpd/narcissists attract eachother. Maybe it's because I'm in the medical field I feel the need to have a diagnosis. I've wanted to bring it up to my counselor and see what she says but I'm just not sure how to. I don't want her to think I'm overstepping by trying to diagnose myself