Hang tough babe. I admire you and you should be so proud of yourself not to bow to peer pressure. I'm married 10 years and waited to have sex until I met my wife. I have Christian values, but even if I was another faith, I'd want to wait for the one who felt right. She wasn't a virgin, but I got past that. THese days it's unlikely to find many people who wait.

You can't make the decision to have sex the first time in the heat of the moment during passionate kissing. It has to be a logical decision you make with your head and discuss with the guy. Both of you have to be on the same page regarding birth control.

Look at you. You never have to worry about an unwanted pregnancy, whether or not to have an abortion, or STD's, not to mention dying from AIDS.

Wait until you feel ready. Feel proud. You go girl!