Thank God you made a choice in YOUR favor.
I just saw this post this morning and my first thought was OMG..Mental illness..is very scary and can lead us into the wrong relationships so often.

As you know I just got out of a relationship that had some red flags from the start that I chose to ignore. This is such a big red flag for you and this guy. Let him find someone who is in his same caliper..I am going to be judgemental and say you are high above this type of personality....

Not needing this type of person in your life is an understatement. I'm so glad you have come to a conclusion that is safe for you..I don't see how there could ever be full trust, safety with this man..I would always wonder if we had disagreements if he was going to murder me as well....Nope...good choice.