I am also worried about certain family members like my Mother who means well but does things like hug and kiss him when he says he doesn't want to at the moment then she does it anyways and that sort of thing really upsets him. I can see her saying something like "Do you like your new baby sister/brother? And he answers no then she says "that's not nice you have to love them because they are family your the big brother you have to be nice" and then start an argument with the kid. She does stuff like this all the time and really gets him going even though I've tried talking to her about it many times.