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Originally Posted by elevatedsoul
i hate this...
its confusing me so much... like how do i care about her?
i mean, she's just a friend so why am i reacting so intensely...
i like her but she's taken so i dunno why i feeling like this because im going to ruin it all if it doesnt go away.. this why i can t have friends...
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So it's obvious you are having relatively high expectations from this. Which is okay, as you're aware of having them.
It might help to maybe ask yourself what would you expect from the relationship....
You are not going to ruin it because it depends on both...don't take more responsibility than it's your part.
And you could meet mid-way, somewhere. I think it is really important to realise that it doesn't depend only on you. And you've done the first steps you deserve to relax, as said above, wait a day or preferably more.
In the same time I can totally understand that it can be overwhelming, and I can relate
