Dear T,

Just want to let you know that I don't really like this change that you have been implementing, without talking to me first. I don't even know if you have been doing it consciously or not. You have been trying to do this for a while, I think. By not texting me when you have sent an email, I don't know if you have sent one or not, if it doesn't send, which it hasn't on several occasions.

It is OK if it comes through, but what do I do if it doesn't. Do I just wait and stew and feel like you have forgotten about me or that you don't care or that I have pushed you away or that something terrible has happened to you etc etc etc etc or do I chase you up and question whether you have replied or not.

When they have not come through I the past, and I know you have sent it because you told me by text, I can tell you it hasn't come through and you normally just very briefly summarise in the text. You have never resent the email, and, whilst I have wanted you to, it had been on that you haven't.

Anyway, rambling. Just not sure that I like the change, especially because you haven't talked to me about it. Talk to me T, talk to me. I would understand if you had reasons, but I don't understand you not talking to me. Don't repeat history!!!