I'm sorry for your sadness.
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i think.. that there are just some things.. maybe.. we should know.... especially about our moms..

</div></font></blockquote><font class="post"> Yes, I so very much agree(knowing about our moms)---- there is no applying for motherhood that states-- "one must be free of their own baggage in which you will provide all that a child needs to growup secure, healthy and well adjusted".....
mothers are human too-- they make mistakes-- sometimes huge life-altering ones. they can be weak, hurtful and abusive or even neglectful-- sometimes due to their own pasts.

I think a mother that abuses and or neglects is a mother with unresolved baggage of her own....... not that that excuses her..... just kind of explains some things, like maybe-- it wasn't that we weren't worth protecting or loving.... just that perhaps she couldn't, considering from where she came.....

freewill

mandy