Hi, so i was woundering if anyone has dealt with relationship abandoment, i do hope this right section post this. As much seems silly im 23 year old who deals this for quiet few years want say 5 or 6. I used had long distance relationship with this girl we dating about year and everything seemed be going well. About xmas eve when i last talk to her, and we said we talk again in new year both us had family things going on. Well after that i had not heard single thing from her over a year after which i got point gave up hope she come back. Dissapered out the blue no reason. With this i try move on and everytime i keep somehow finding reason to break up the person or become less sociable with them. I cant help blame my self all time. I always think back to first one and aomehow my fault that she just left. I have tried countless times to let go that feelings move forward everytime i feel i e progress i end up back square one. To point now i avoid getting into a relationship so i dont keep messing up. I really cant find a clear way to figure out how get my self out this trench i been stuck in. Much less how i can cop with it effecting me so strongly. I do appolgize if my set up all over the place or incorrect wordding.