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Originally Posted by subtle lights
I think though for some people it's the pandora's box with their own issues they refuse to face. If they'd let you show the content of your own box it would automatically trigger their own to open.
In the same time it's like two opposing energies. Happy and sad cannot stay together in one space. We are trying to build the bridge between us and others, between sad and happy, but there is no material to stick this two together, no bridge, you just jump and disconnect from the other side.
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I don't necessarily agree with the sentiment about happy and sad. I believe two opposites can and should co-exist in the same space in order to balance one another out. In the case of the depressed and non-depressed person ... balancing would be painful for the non-depressed person, it requires they "unwind a bit" which is why many would rather look away - its more fun to be high than to be "middle" or "low", but for the depressed person, balancing would be wondrous - any uplifting experience makes a person feel awesome and balancing the depressed person required "raising them a bit" which is why they seek out happier people looking for help. It's much like basic physics positive ions attract negative ions. At least thats how I view it but we can disagree and its fine. Just wanted to explain my view.
The rest just comes down to a person's personality. Are they selfish? Are they scared? Sometimes their life circumstances get in the way...
Lots of differing factors
Yes, you have jerks. Always will. Even those that are rich and have no health problems at all have jerks harass them and tell them they are no good. But not everyone is that way. Some legitmately do not understand and unless we take extreme initiative to insure they have proper understanding (with no violence intended or used), they most likely never will understand.