I have learned that I tended to have a "fawn" response to situations that I have been in, in the past. This allowed people to take advantage of me. We have explored why I would become passive and how I could give myself greater safety in the future, by being more assertive (shouting "get off"). I have not perceived this as blaming me for what happened, but a way of giving me greater confidence in the future.
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