I think everyone's S/O looks down on them from time to time. Your therapist has his opinion. Maybe he's right. Maybe he's wrong. But you can't dwell on the notion that your guy looks down on you and be happy. If there are things you wish he'ld rather not say, tell him so. Then he should refrain.

Don't make a habit of bringing hubby to therapy with you. Once in a while is a good idea.