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Cyran0 said:
Good healthy sex is a two way street so if his problem is not purely physical, it might be worth considering whether or not you're contributing to his psychological difficulties.

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As a Person - I AGREE with what you are saying here.

But, as a woman who has also suffered through sexual abuse - I have to say that it is him that needs to be understanding with his wife during this difficult time for her, for it is hard to give freely to another sexually when your safety was taken by force and especially is that other person was also a man.

Now I have to ask -

Has she talked to her husband about this matter and how she feels? - I did with my husband and it made the world of difference in me feeling safe with him sexually...... Life & Sex is Good.